No hard feelings girl's, and do provide opinion if I'm rite okeyh.

1- She's no longer as needy

If she was never able to go shopping, exercise or cross the street alone, and she suddenly doesn't need your company, it may mean that someone else is filling your shoes. It's possible that she just needs time to herself, but if she's unusually independent when she used to be overly needy, it may signal that she's just no longer as needy... of you.

2- She no longer gets angry

She used to get angry if you didn't want to meet her for lunch or come out with her and her friends, but now everything you do is all right by her. Once upon a time, your every move had to be premeditated, but now all the small things you used to mess up aren't enraging her. This could be a good thing, but it should make you wonder why she no longer cares.

3- She's being secretive

She's no longer sharing her daily events with you, and in order to find out what she's doing, you'd have to hack into her BlackBerry because she's not volunteering any information regarding the goings-on in her life.

4- She places the focus on you

When you do ask her questions, she turns the tables on you. The former chatterbox's batteries have run out, and when you ask her how her night was, mum's the only word. It's now all about you, you, you, rather than "I did this" and "I went here last night."

5- She showers you with pleasure

Now that it's all about you, your girlfriend is always complimenting you, asking you to go out, giving you "I love you" cards for no reason whatsoever, and even offering to wash your car and watch the boxing match with you. While these gestures are more than sweet, it's this kind of overcompensating behavior that can make one suspicious. If she's bombarding you with niceties, it might be nice to know what's really going on.

28 comments:

  1. Ken Wooi said...

    ooo..
    interesting! =D

    kenwooi.com  

  2. Syed Salleh said...

    ha3..
    yeah, there's another one cool topic..
    i'll post it up tomorrow :p  

  3. [rin] said...

    well, stuff like this is not necessarily true and neither does it apply to everyone...
    definitely not a sure-fire guide, coz everyone's different...
    btw, hacking into your gf's blackberry is a big no-no!
    =D

    but, yes, i'd say that the secretive part would be more or less correct to most people...
    >.^  

  4. Syed Salleh said...

    ha3.. yeah i guess so..
    but truly, girls are kinda mysterious.
    As guys wouldn't be able to know what they are thinking and feeling sometimes.  

  5. K-Z said...

    her cheating or not, i dont know...

    but:
    no1, i've had it...
    no2, i've had it...
    no3, i've had it...
    no4, i've had it...
    no5, never ever happen in our relationship...

    that is what i've been going through right now...  

  6. Syed Salleh said...

    ha3..
    damn !
    cian nye ko :p  

  7. [rin] said...

    hahah~
    c'mon la, it's every gal's dream to have a guy who can really understand her...
    unfortunately, probs never gonna happen eh?  

  8. Syed Salleh said...

    Ha3.. yeah..
    well though guys can learn from experience..
    and become better though, that's what we call as evolution..
    may be in time, every guy is going to be PERFECT, who knows :p  

  9. Neyra Shazeyra said...

    sian kayz. hahaha. abg, entry ni hentam entry adek ke? ahaks!


    guys, meh datang my blog:

    KENAPA LELAKI CURANG.

    http://babyeyra.blogspot.com  

  10. K-Z said...

    Bkn hentam ko jer, tp mengenakan aku skali...
    sbb aku ngendeng2 kat si bubu dy tu...
    Marah ka Syed Salleh...?  

  11. Syed Salleh said...

    eyra - ha3.. siot jewk LOL..
    pe kesah.. nak kejar adik :p  

  12. Syed Salleh said...

    ha3.. marah weyhhh !!
    tak gi gym ke ri ni weyhhh?  

  13. Neyra Shazeyra said...

    abg ed; hahahhaha kejar ah kalo dapat. abg, esok g p.malam jum. abg blnja. hahaha

    abg kayz; life percintaan ko complicated lg ke? tgk macam aku. single is fun! haha  

  14. Syed Salleh said...

    eyra - ha3.. ok set.. adik tau kan esok cuti..
    mizi inform abg tadi.  

  15. Neyra Shazeyra said...

    hahaha tahu abg bgtahu la. hahaha

    abg,

    tgk entry adek:

    5 signs that your boyfriend is cheating!

    http://neyralove.blogspot.com/2009/10/5-signs-your-boyfriend-is-cheating.html  

  16. Syed Salleh said...

    woiiiiiiiiiiiiii !!
    siot jewk..
    dushhhh !!  

  17. enyheartsdiamond said...

    wow..ed talks about <3???;)  

  18. Syed Salleh said...

    ha3..well wait for tomorrow topic :p  

  19. K-Z said...

    yup, sangat complicated...
    dulu boleh la, single is fun xperlu pening2 kepala...
    but skrg, di luar nmpk happy, tp di dlm... jwb sdri la...  

  20. Syed Salleh said...

    ha3.. :p  

  21. BUBuu said...

    lalala~  

  22. Neyra Shazeyra said...

    sian kao kayz. aku tumpang simpati. utk mengelakkan kao stress, baik kao beli chocs dengan aku. haha  

  23. K-Z said...

    kalo bli chocs ko, lg tambah stress aku... kalo free aku nak...
    ;p  

  24. Allison said...

    hi, i dont think this applies to every case. Maybe in some only. Some girls or guys can cheat w/o a conscience. And don't hack into her blackberry. It will gv her all the more 'reason' to cheat on you! :)  

  25. Syed Salleh said...

    Bubuu - lala chiak !! :p  

  26. Syed Salleh said...

    Neyra - Ape ni promote choc lak beb..
    ishhh2 !!  

  27. Syed Salleh said...

    Kays - mengemukkan bro..  

  28. Syed Salleh said...

    Allison - probably she would lose trust on us then. And truly i wouldn't wanna c to cheat on me back either by just checking on her blackberry.  

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